{"id":766,"date":"2005-02-04T12:44:24","date_gmt":"2005-02-04T19:44:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kattywilly.com\/blog\/?p=766"},"modified":"2005-02-04T12:44:24","modified_gmt":"2005-02-04T19:44:24","slug":"mothers-and-fathers-dont-die","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.kattywilly.com\/blog\/?p=766","title":{"rendered":"mothers and fathers don&#8217;t die"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>This morning I was going through a gallery of travel photos on the net that someone<br \/>\ntook during a trip to Disney World and the Magic Kindom with their<br \/>\nsmall children.  I was remembering how much fun we had taking the<br \/>\ngirls to Disney when they were little.  For us in those days it<br \/>\nreally did seem like the happiest place on earth.  Then at lunch I<br \/>\nheard a reading of this Edna St. Vincent Millay poem that talks about a<br \/>\ndifferent kingdom.  This gives a sense of what I keep trying to<br \/>\ndescribe when I talk about what the girls have lost.  Childhood.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.poets.org\/poets\/poets.cfm?45442B7C000C070308\">Edna St. Vincent Millay<\/a><span style=\"font-weight: bold;\"><br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/lennon.pub.csufresno.edu\/%7Ekds31\/mil3.html\">Childhood Is the Kingdom Where Nobody Dies<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Childhood is not from birth to a certain age and at a certain age<br \/>The child is grown, and puts away childish things.<br \/>Childhood is the kingdom where nobody dies.<\/p>\n<p>Nobody that matters, that is.  Distant relatives of course<br \/>Die, whom one never has seen or has seen for an hour,<br \/>And they gave one candy in a pink-and-green strip&eacute;d bag, or a jack-knife,<br \/>And went away, and cannot really be said to have lived at all.<\/p>\n<p>And cats die. They lie on the floor and lash their tails,<br \/>And their reticent fur is suddenly all in motion<br \/>With fleas that one never knew were there,<br \/>Polished and brown, knowing all there is to know,<br \/>Trekking off into the living world.<br \/>You fetch a shoe-box, but it&#8217;s much too small, because she won&#8217;t curl up now:<br \/>So you find a bigger box, and bury her in the yard, and weep.<br \/>But you do not wake up a month from then, two months<br \/>A year from then, two years, in the middle of the night<br \/>And weep, with your knuckles in your mouth, and say Oh, God! Oh, God!<br \/>Childhood is the kingdom where nobody dies that matters,<br \/>    &#8211;mothers and fathers don&#8217;t die.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This morning I was going through a gallery of travel photos on the net that someone took during a trip to Disney World and the Magic Kindom with their small children. I was remembering how much fun we had taking &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.kattywilly.com\/blog\/?p=766\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-766","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.kattywilly.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/766","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.kattywilly.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.kattywilly.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.kattywilly.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.kattywilly.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=766"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.kattywilly.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/766\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.kattywilly.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=766"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.kattywilly.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=766"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.kattywilly.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=766"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}