{"id":825,"date":"2005-05-25T19:26:42","date_gmt":"2005-05-26T02:26:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kattywilly.com\/blog\/?p=825"},"modified":"2005-05-25T19:26:42","modified_gmt":"2005-05-26T02:26:42","slug":"you-cannot-possibly-imagine-it","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.kattywilly.com\/blog\/?p=825","title":{"rendered":"you cannot possibly imagine it"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>These quotes are from the movie Lemony Snicket&#8217;s A Series of<br \/>\nUnfortunate Events.&nbsp; I stole them from a posting over on<br \/>\nWidownet.&nbsp; When I watched the movie the other day I was struck by<br \/>\nthe first quote.&nbsp; It is about as true a description as I can some<br \/>\nup with to describe what it is like to be a widower.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;If you have ever lost someone important to you, then you already know<br \/>\nhow it feels, and if you haven&#8217;t, you cannot possibly imagine it.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;. . . it is a sad truth in life that when someone has lost a loved one,<br \/>\nfriends sometimes avoid the person, just when the presence of friends is<br \/>\nmost needed.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It is a curious thing, the death of a loved one. It&#8217;s like walking up<br \/>\nthe stairs to your bedroom in the dark and thinking that there&#8217;s one<br \/>\nmore stair than there is. Your foot falls down through the air, and<br \/>\nthere&#8217;s a sickly moment of dark surprise.&#8221;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>These quotes are from the movie Lemony Snicket&#8217;s A Series of Unfortunate Events.&nbsp; I stole them from a posting over on Widownet.&nbsp; When I watched the movie the other day I was struck by the first quote.&nbsp; It is about &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.kattywilly.com\/blog\/?p=825\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-825","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.kattywilly.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/825","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.kattywilly.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.kattywilly.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.kattywilly.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.kattywilly.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=825"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.kattywilly.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/825\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.kattywilly.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=825"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.kattywilly.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=825"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.kattywilly.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=825"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}