“And then I realized… why? That means nothing to anyone but me. Those
\nevents really TRULY only had relevance to two people in the world, and
\none of them is gone. That leaves me, and I don’t need to dwell on those
\npast events.”<\/a><\/p>\nThat is one of the things I find it very difficult to deal with, the
\ndesire to remember the good times of the past, and wanting to share
\nthose memories that we experienced together. But as Todd says those
\nmemories are only relevant to me and Cindy and she’s never going to be
\nhere to share those with me. Does that make those memories somehow
\nempty memories that hold no value? Where do they fit in this new life?
\nDo they have any place? Did I not only lose Cindy and our future
\ntogether? Did I somehow lose much of what only the two of us shared
\nprivately? Think about all the personal memories you have that were
\nshared with only you and someone you loved. When the loved one dies do
\nwe lose half of those shared memories, or do we actually lose them
\ncompletely?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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