“Fear, disbelief, suspicion, anger, apathy.
Short temper, moodiness. Reluctance to leave property.
Guilt over having been unable to prevent the disaster.
Confusion, numbness or flashbacks.
Difficulty in making decisions.
Excessive helpfulness to other disaster victims.
Loss of appetite.
Crying for no immediate reason.
Increased effects from allergies, colds and flu.
Rejecting outside help or feeling disappointed with outside help.
Isolation from family, friends and social activities.”
A nice list of things that happen to those who are greiving, but in this case it isn’t from a widow/widower perspective.