age-compatible social environments

Deb is new to this area and wonders where to meet 40 somethings in this area.  I’m not so new to this area, but new to the concept of wishing to meet people for “friendship and potential relationship” and wonder the same thing.  A friend has informed me that the place to meet people is Kinkos but I’m not so sure that is the best “age-compatible social environment” in the area  🙂